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Domestic Abuse Stories


  • Allison’s Story of Abuse

    Allison’s Story of Abuse

    Allison submitted a testimonial from the other side of the abuse. She left 7 years ago, and has been busy! Book published, paper under consideration by the Journal of Aggression, Maltreatment and Trauma, scholarship granted… But perhaps most inspiring is Allison left her abuser when she was 56 years old. Her life is not over,…

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  • Carolyn’s Story of Abuse

    Carolyn’s Signs of Being Abused The verbal abuse has been relentless (but of course there are typical “honeymoon” periods after he rages). I did not fully understand just how abused I am until I read several books on the subject. I have come to realize it is not normal to be constantly torn down and…

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  • Two Effects of Verbal Abuse Video

    Mental and Emotional Fatigue from Verbal Abuse (A couple of minutes of needless video clipped at the beginning.) And when I did check my email yesterday, I found an email from a friend of mine who is kind of in the same situation. I’ve never met her, you all know how that goes online, and…

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  • Diana’s Story of Abuse

    Diana’s Signs of Being Abused I first justified his actions, I found out when he verbally wanted me to feel disgusted with myself, and by seeing these videos. Diana’s Emotional Signs of Abuse Guilt, Depression, Low Self-Esteem Diana’s Story of Abuse I am 18 years old and my ex is 23-years-old. We have been together…

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  • Todd’s Story of Abuse

    Todd’s Story of Abuse

    Todd’s testimonial has a twist: his story comes from the point of view of the abuser. I’ve communicated with Todd outside of this testimonial and he seems sincere and ready to change. He mentions Controlling People: How to Recognize, Understand, and Deal With People Who Try to Control You by Patricia Evans as the book…

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  • Ali’s Story of Abuse

    Ali’s Story of Abuse

    How Ali Found Out She Was Being Abused I have recently separated from my husband after being married 8 years. I have 2 children aged 3 and 1. My marriage has been a roller coaster ride from the beginning. But over the years the lows have got longer and more terrifying. I had thought our…

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  • Susan’s Story of Abuse

    Susan’s Story of Abuse

    I couldn’t continue to stay around this man who wasn’t ready to change and didn’t want to change. His problems are not my problems anymore.

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  • Kim A’s Story of Abuse

    I lost weight, didn’t go out, drink, or contact friends, all the things that were the problem according to him, & still was a slut, drunk, fat, gold digger.

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  • RandomlyK’s Story of Abuse

    RandomlyK’s Story of Abuse

    RandomlyK’s Signs of Being Abused A few months ago, in confiding to friend…, our conversation revealed much more than I was ready for – that my life sounded like a movie from Lifetime, the one about the woman whose husband beat, tormented and stalked her. RandomlyK’s Emotional Signs of Abuse Humiliated, Heart-broken, Terrified, Shocked RandomlyK’s…

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  • Amber’s Story of Abuse

    Amber’s Story of Abuse

    How Amber Found Out She Was Being Abused It was pretty obvious. If you know me … then you know I am in an abusive relationship. I cannot tell you how many times I have heard “Why don’t you just leave?” “He isn’t good to you…or your children.” “You deserve better than this.” Three Words…

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