Stories of Leaving
- Alexandra’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Alexandria’s Story — Leaving an Abusive Relationship
- Amber’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Angela Lee’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Angela’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Anne’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Aurora’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Boring’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Casey’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Claire’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Gipsy’s Leaving Abuse Story
- I Left My Abusive Marriage: Why Am I Still In A Mental Fog?
- Jamie B’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Jamie’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Jane’s Story of Leaving Domestic Abuse
- Jennifer’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Jim’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- KareMarie – Story of Leaving Abuse
- Kate’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Kelli’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Layla’s Story of Leaving Abuse
- Lisa – Leaving Abuse
- Little Angelou’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Lori’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Moyo’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Peacock Lady’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Robin’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Sara 2’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Sara’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Sarah’s Story – Leaving Abuse Twice
- Sheri’s Story of Leaving Abuse
- Silvia’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Stacia’s Story – Leaving Abuse
- Sterling’s Story of Leaving Abuse
- Vanessa’s Story of Leaving Abuse
Planning to Leave Abuse
When you live with abuse, it’s easy to believe that leaving is for other people. Maybe you think it takes luck, money, or a kind of strength you don’t have. The stories below show how others left even when they felt weak and at a disadvantage.
Most people who leave don’t feel good about it at first. They feel scared, guilty, or unsure, and some keep feeling that way for a while after they go. For many, the relief comes later. Reading how someone else planned and carried out their exit can help you think about your own options, if and when you decide to leave.
Making a plan, even one you never use, can give you back some sense of control. Start with our free short safety plan. There’s no sign-up, and it’s designed to help you whether you stay or go. If you share a phone, computer, or printer with the other person, think about where you’ll save or print it.