Abuse Hides in the Dark. Turn on Your Light.


why the judge gave primary custody to an abusive man is beyond my comprehension

Will and I went to mediation yesterday. We did not sign a parenting agreement. We return to mediation on May 3rd, a date by which we plan to have a financial consent order in place. I told him I wouldn’t sign ANYTHING until after the custody mediation.

mediationHowever, Will suggested I keep the boys with me last night, and Thursday through Saturday night, dropping them off with him on Sunday at 7pm.

Of course, I accepted.

I don’t know why the judge did what he did that day. My confusion is vast and unending, and I am not going to try to figure out the “why” at this point.

Well, that’s not totally true. “WHY?” is the biggest question on my mind. But since I cannot get into the judge’s head, there is no way to know.

I do know that Will was flabbergasted to receive primary custody but NOT the house. “The house” was the furthest thing from my mind.

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