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How to Help Abuse Victims and Survivors


  • Verbal Self-Defense: What You Must Know

    Verbal Self-Defense: What You Must Know

    [If you are the person who wrote this, please tell me so I can put your name back on it.] Stop or Slow the Escalation of Abusive Anger Verbal abuse underlies most domestic violence, so verbal…

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  • How to Help a Domestic Abuse Victim

    How to Help a Domestic Abuse Victim

    Is It Even Possible? Is it possible to help a domestic abuse victim? How could you, a bystander to your loved one’s abusive relationship, help? Is there a way to help her without inviting the abuser…

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  • The Army and Domestic Violence and Abuse

    The Army and Domestic Violence and Abuse

    For the love of Pete, please, Army spouses, understand that you CAN report domestic abuse in your home WITHOUT your soldier losing their career! Army policy may require counseling, classes, and interviews, but your report…

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