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Voices In My Head Can’t Agree on How I Should Behave

The voices in my head argue without me. They don't even ask what I think, and therein, I believe, lies the danger.

I have these voices in my head.

One voice says, “You’re being too hard on yourself – the kid in you needs some love. The woman in you needs some love. Love yourself.”

The voices in my head argue without me. They don't even ask what I think, and therein, I believe, lies the danger.Another voice says, “GROW UP! You’re not a child anymore! Stop expecting someone else to fill your cup. Take care of things yourself!”

Love love love. Wish wash. How do I love myself and do my job as a mother to my children, too? Sometimes I feel like I need someone else to love me FOR me. I don’t know HOW to love myself.

Discipline? How do I get that? A loving, guiding voice? Where does that come from?

How do I be my own mother and father AND be a mom and dad for Marc and Eddie?

There doesn’t seem to be enough time in the day. I don’t even know what I need.

(If I’d had The Life-Changing Workbook back then I could have figured out what I needed.)