When I met Mr. Abuser he very quickly wanted to spend all his free time with me. I work 7 days a week so it was a little challenging. I did like him, so I worked it into my schedule.
When I didn’t see him, he “needed” to talk at least once or twice a day; would send numerous texts throughout the day which I wouldn’t respond to because my jobs require my full attention. I was dating someone else at the time I met him so, in all fairness, my availability was not exactly up to par with his.
Now a year later, on numerous occasions I’ve told him this is not working for me and that I wish him well. I only wish happiness in his life. A few days ago we met with the hopes to be “friends” but he took the opportunity to express himself, loudly and abusively.
How Kim Found Out She Was Being Abused
I realized I was in an abusive relationship when I tried to break off with him and he told me how he can see down the line that I will regret it because he is the best thing that will ever come into my life. No one will love me like he does. He then went on to say I led him to believe there could be a future for us (until he started trying to control my thoughts) there “may” have been.
Words Kim Chose to Describe Her Abusive Experience
Frustration, Anger, Disgust
Break the Silence
You are an inspiration to all women, a reminder to trust our instincts, and to get out ASAP! Thanks for sharing.