Comments on: 18th Anniversary http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2010/04/11/18th-anniversary/ ...and what I'm doing in it Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:25:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Lisa http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2010/04/11/18th-anniversary/comment-page-1/#comment-1282 Lisa Sun, 11 Apr 2010 16:28:42 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=1408#comment-1282 You have to love tax season, it brings out the best in some people. I hope that you celebrated your anniversary by acknowledging that you are in a better place and a better situation. It might feel lonely right now, but you are going to come out of this feeling good about yourself. I almost had to laugh at your account of yesterday's situation. That sounds like someone I knew, but with one twist...after yelling at me he would have tried to turn it around so that he was actually the one suffering somehow because I caused all of the grief. And then he would have wanted to have sex so that he felt better about himself. So predictable now that I'm not in the situation anymore. You made good and strong choices yesterday. Keep moving forward with us. You have to love tax season, it brings out the best in some people. I hope that you celebrated your anniversary by acknowledging that you are in a better place and a better situation. It might feel lonely right now, but you are going to come out of this feeling good about yourself.

I almost had to laugh at your account of yesterday’s situation. That sounds like someone I knew, but with one twist…after yelling at me he would have tried to turn it around so that he was actually the one suffering somehow because I caused all of the grief. And then he would have wanted to have sex so that he felt better about himself. So predictable now that I’m not in the situation anymore.

You made good and strong choices yesterday. Keep moving forward with us.

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