Comments on: Don’t Worry http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2010/01/25/worry/ ...and what I'm doing in it Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:25:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: tiffany http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2010/01/25/worry/comment-page-1/#comment-892 tiffany Mon, 25 Jan 2010 16:01:54 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=1176#comment-892 I am worried too. And thinking of you. Keep writing. I am worried too. And thinking of you. Keep writing.

]]> By: Erin http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2010/01/25/worry/comment-page-1/#comment-889 Erin Mon, 25 Jan 2010 14:13:04 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=1176#comment-889 Believe me, I AM WORRIED. The thought of how angry he undoubtedly became over the past few days has me sitting on pins and needles. He has ALWAYS pulled the wool over everybody else's eyes. They have NO CLUE what he is really like - when nobody else is around. They only know the side of him that will do anything for them, say the nicest things to them, joke with them, and be seen as such a nice southern guy... They don't have a clue that he is bamboozeling them right into the thought pattern that he wants them to believe. They don't realize that he is playing them. They don't realize that he is making sure they "fall in line". They don't realize AT ALL what he is like behind closed doors. To all of you out there that tells Kellie, "Don't Worry."... You have NO IDEA what it is really like to live with him. I have seen first hand what he does and how he treats his family. He has not showed this to anybody else outside of their immediate family but me (that I am aware of). It really irritates me that not only does my sister have to go through the pain, physical hurt, and anxiety she is going through right now - but on top of that she has to deal with people who think they know him so well telling her that all will be okay. I am here to tell you... YOU DON'T HAVE A CLUE. Please open your eyes before something ELSE happens. I beg of you. My sister's life may depend on it. Believe me, I AM WORRIED. The thought of how angry he undoubtedly became over the past few days has me sitting on pins and needles. He has ALWAYS pulled the wool over everybody else’s eyes. They have NO CLUE what he is really like – when nobody else is around. They only know the side of him that will do anything for them, say the nicest things to them, joke with them, and be seen as such a nice southern guy…

They don’t have a clue that he is bamboozeling them right into the thought pattern that he wants them to believe. They don’t realize that he is playing them. They don’t realize that he is making sure they “fall in line”. They don’t realize AT ALL what he is like behind closed doors.

To all of you out there that tells Kellie, “Don’t Worry.”… You have NO IDEA what it is really like to live with him. I have seen first hand what he does and how he treats his family. He has not showed this to anybody else outside of their immediate family but me (that I am aware of).

It really irritates me that not only does my sister have to go through the pain, physical hurt, and anxiety she is going through right now – but on top of that she has to deal with people who think they know him so well telling her that all will be okay.

I am here to tell you…

YOU DON’T HAVE A CLUE. Please open your eyes before something ELSE happens. I beg of you. My sister’s life may depend on it.

]]> By: quietone http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2010/01/25/worry/comment-page-1/#comment-888 quietone Mon, 25 Jan 2010 12:48:43 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=1176#comment-888 I am so sad for you. Your tenacity and bravery are amazing. How are the kids holding up? Do you have someone there for you now? Do you have support? I am thinking of you always. I am praying, wishing, hoping, demanding God DO something! I am here. I am so sad for you. Your tenacity and bravery are amazing. How are the kids holding up?
Do you have someone there for you now? Do you have support?
I am thinking of you always. I am praying, wishing, hoping, demanding God DO something!
I am here.

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