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	<title>Comments on: Everything and Nothing</title>
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	<description>...and what I&#039;m doing in it</description>
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		<title>By: keepsmiling</title>
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		<dc:creator>keepsmiling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jan 2010 10:22:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>your destiny lies within your hands, you can be free from this, you can fly like a bird, noone owns anyone you belong to yourself, i think you have lived this life so long you cant see out of the box, the box being your life as it is, now just imagine yourself living as a single person after all these years of abuse it would be scarey at first, like a child taking its first steps, imagine this place and think about the things you would do in this new place the friends you would make, every day a new adventure a different life with peace and happyness the end goal.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>your destiny lies within your hands, you can be free from this, you can fly like a bird, noone owns anyone you belong to yourself, i think you have lived this life so long you cant see out of the box, the box being your life as it is, now just imagine yourself living as a single person after all these years of abuse it would be scarey at first, like a child taking its first steps, imagine this place and think about the things you would do in this new place the friends you would make, every day a new adventure a different life with peace and happyness the end goal.</p>
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		<title>By: quietone</title>
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		<dc:creator>quietone</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Jan 2010 20:05:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Of course I can not keep my mouth shut!  I am really &#039;proud&quot; of you - but that sounds patronizing. I admire you for getting there.  I really do.  It is so hard to express to someone who is healthy, what that tightrope means and how you got there and how hard it is to get off.
It makes no sense to them.
So it can only make sense to yourself.  
Once it starts making sense to yourself the whole thing becomes a land slide. 
He will try to stop you - you might even try to stop yourself a time or two.  But like a land slide you will just keep right on rolling and gathering steam.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Of course I can not keep my mouth shut!  I am really &#8216;proud&#8221; of you &#8211; but that sounds patronizing. I admire you for getting there.  I really do.  It is so hard to express to someone who is healthy, what that tightrope means and how you got there and how hard it is to get off.<br />
It makes no sense to them.<br />
So it can only make sense to yourself.<br />
Once it starts making sense to yourself the whole thing becomes a land slide.<br />
He will try to stop you &#8211; you might even try to stop yourself a time or two.  But like a land slide you will just keep right on rolling and gathering steam.</p>
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