http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/10/11/poking-beast/ ...and what I'm doing in it Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:25:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/10/11/poking-beast/comment-page-1/#comment-540 amber Mon, 12 Oct 2009 06:29:10 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=857#comment-540 Yep...you pretty much described him. You gotta think we have been married for ten years...we have went through the different phases...when we were first married I would get hurt and cry, after a couple of years I would get angry and fight back. Now he can't get to me like he used to. He tries and I know it bugs him. I think they eventually push us to the point where "we" change. And where that innocent, unconditional, love isn't there anymore. I love my husband completely. But I am always on guard. I expect him to do bad...when he is good it surprises me. I almost know what he is going to say before he says it. I hate the cycle. Yep…you pretty much described him. You gotta think we have been married for ten years…we have went through the different phases…when we were first married I would get hurt and cry, after a couple of years I would get angry and fight back. Now he can’t get to me like he used to. He tries and I know it bugs him. I think they eventually push us to the point where “we” change. And where that innocent, unconditional, love isn’t there anymore. I love my husband completely. But I am always on guard. I expect him to do bad…when he is good it surprises me. I almost know what he is going to say before he says it. I hate the cycle.

]]> http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/10/11/poking-beast/comment-page-1/#comment-645 Kellie Holly Mon, 12 Oct 2009 01:24:37 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=857#comment-645 <span class="topsy_trackback_comment"><span class="topsy_twitter_username"><span class="topsy_trackback_content">blog_update Poking the Beast: “I think this is a great idea – but it is just going to awaken t.. http://bit.ly/vieoF</span></span> blog_update Poking the Beast: “I think this is a great idea – but it is just going to awaken t.. http://bit.ly/vieoF

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