Comments on: Dysfunctional Motivation http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/07/11/dysfunctional-motivation/ verbal abuse in marriage Mon, 08 Apr 2013 16:22:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Randomly K http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/07/11/dysfunctional-motivation/comment-page-1/#comment-277 Randomly K Sun, 12 Jul 2009 12:49:00 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=597#comment-277 Amazing. I’ve had those same thoughts, same motivation. You’re pretty spot on when you say: “I suspect that, in time, I’ll burn through this initial motivation and will come to rely on habit (new, healthier habits) and the “right” reasons for creating and maintaining a healthy body.” You will. Sometimes motivation comes from weird places, but what keeps you going is true motivation. When you find YOUR reasons, your true reasons, you’ll get there…but be prepared for sabotage! (yours & his)

For, I’m in the middle of that process…I’m almost at doing this for *my* reasons. But I am encountering some opposition , even thought I’ve never verbally or consciously shared those reasons. I blogged a bit about that opposition, or sabotage.

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