Steve Becker, the guest on Martha Trowbridge’s radio show “It’s [Not] All in Your Mind Dear has also written a piece entitled Relationship Abuse and the Mentality of the Abuser. It is a perfect primer for understanding why my abusive crazy-maker acts the way he does.

Steve Becker’s website is Power Communicating, and his blog is Love Fraud.

I’m going to listen to Martha’s show again with a pencil and paper so I can take notes in the morning. Mr. Becker is packed FULL of great information and Martha does a wonderful job of relating his comments to my crazy-making husband’s behaviors.

Since you’re still up, why don’t you listen to the show now? We can compare notes in the morning!