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	<title>Comments on: Between You and Me</title>
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	<description>...and what I&#039;m doing in it</description>
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		<title>By: Me</title>
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		<dc:creator>Me</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Jun 2009 04:55:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Martha, thank you for the compliments and the reminder. I feel overwhelmed knowing that there are SO MANY others out there walking in my shoes, and that makes me so very very sad. I wish I WAS alone in this. I wish my marriage was unique.

And at the same time, I feel so grateful to everyone who contacts me for the exact same reasons you gave. Kinship. Validation. Truth.

The one thing you forgot is a link to the show :)
Listen to &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.marthatrowbridgeradio.org/blog/the-crazy-making-husband-radio-show/steve-becker-lcsw-its-not-all-in-your-mind-dear/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;&quot;It&#039;s Not All in Your Mind Dear&quot;&lt;/a&gt; ... I&#039;m listening right now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Martha, thank you for the compliments and the reminder. I feel overwhelmed knowing that there are SO MANY others out there walking in my shoes, and that makes me so very very sad. I wish I WAS alone in this. I wish my marriage was unique.</p>
<p>And at the same time, I feel so grateful to everyone who contacts me for the exact same reasons you gave. Kinship. Validation. Truth.</p>
<p>The one thing you forgot is a link to the show <img src='http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
Listen to <a href="http://www.marthatrowbridgeradio.org/blog/the-crazy-making-husband-radio-show/steve-becker-lcsw-its-not-all-in-your-mind-dear/" rel="nofollow">&#8220;It&#8217;s Not All in Your Mind Dear&#8221;</a> &#8230; I&#8217;m listening right now.</p>
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		<title>By: Martha Trowbridge</title>
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		<dc:creator>Martha Trowbridge</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Jun 2009 18:24:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kellie, 

Once again I applaud your wisdom. And your bravery. 

The woman who wrote you likely is seeking emotional support more than anything else. Validation. Kinship. Your work is compelling, Kellie, gorgeous, eloquent. I can understand her reaching out to you. With your truths, you have profoundly touched her. 

As for abuse, I recently interviewed LCSW Steve Becker. Our show, &#039;It&#039;s [Not] All In Your Mind, Dear: When Your Crazy-Making Husband Is A Narcissist&#039; is an empathic overview of the &#039;why&#039; of many a husband&#039;s emotional and mental abuse.

I hope your community finds it helpful.

All my best,

Martha</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kellie, </p>
<p>Once again I applaud your wisdom. And your bravery. </p>
<p>The woman who wrote you likely is seeking emotional support more than anything else. Validation. Kinship. Your work is compelling, Kellie, gorgeous, eloquent. I can understand her reaching out to you. With your truths, you have profoundly touched her. </p>
<p>As for abuse, I recently interviewed LCSW Steve Becker. Our show, &#8216;It&#8217;s [Not] All In Your Mind, Dear: When Your Crazy-Making Husband Is A Narcissist&#8217; is an empathic overview of the &#8216;why&#8217; of many a husband&#8217;s emotional and mental abuse.</p>
<p>I hope your community finds it helpful.</p>
<p>All my best,</p>
<p>Martha</p>
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