Comments on: I Am Hoping http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/06/06/i-am-hoping/ ...and what I'm doing in it Mon, 06 Feb 2012 07:25:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: eaglewolfespirit/Deb http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/06/06/i-am-hoping/comment-page-1/#comment-1151 eaglewolfespirit/Deb Tue, 02 Mar 2010 03:17:43 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=410#comment-1151 What a vicoius cycle it is...I hate the anxiety...the nervousness in the gut...anxiety is a side effect of the abuse...I just read your post where 'little me' and 'big me' are conversing...'big me' mentions when you dread hearing the footsteps, I am SO there...home is supposed to be our sanctuary, filled with beauty, love, peace....not our jail cell, our tomb...where our souls rot from starvation....and we are tormented, tormented for what?? Senselessness... What a vicoius cycle it is…I hate the anxiety…the nervousness in the gut…anxiety is a side effect of the abuse…I just read your post where ‘little me’ and ‘big me’ are conversing…’big me’ mentions when you dread hearing the footsteps, I am SO there…home is supposed to be our sanctuary, filled with beauty, love, peace….not our jail cell, our tomb…where our souls rot from starvation….and we are tormented, tormented for what?? Senselessness…

]]> By: Why Don’t You Just LEAVE? | My Verbally Abusive Marriage http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/06/06/i-am-hoping/comment-page-1/#comment-187 Why Don’t You Just LEAVE? | My Verbally Abusive Marriage Mon, 15 Jun 2009 07:34:14 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=410#comment-187 [...] off, his words are true. After all, I just wrote about HOPE and how a feeling so positive and worthy is usually diminished and falsified in an abusive [...] [...] off, his words are true. After all, I just wrote about HOPE and how a feeling so positive and worthy is usually diminished and falsified in an abusive [...]

]]> By: Erin http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/06/06/i-am-hoping/comment-page-1/#comment-163 Erin Sun, 07 Jun 2009 14:29:33 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=410#comment-163 Take skype off of your computer. At least that way, you can have some peace while he is gone. The conversations don't seem to go well anyway. OR, if you feel obligated to have it on there, allow a certain time where you are "available" and then turn it off. You know - like in the "4 Hour Work Week". Take skype off of your computer. At least that way, you can have some peace while he is gone. The conversations don’t seem to go well anyway.

OR, if you feel obligated to have it on there, allow a certain time where you are “available” and then turn it off. You know – like in the “4 Hour Work Week”.

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