Comments on: Or Not. http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/06/02/or-not/ ...and what I'm doing in it Sat, 12 May 2012 04:16:57 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= By: Me http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/06/02/or-not/comment-page-1/#comment-148 Me Wed, 03 Jun 2009 01:37:38 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=375#comment-148 Oh Vicki, I feel for you! Right now, you're crushed, but you don't have to stay that way. Please, reach out to someone who knows what to do and what to say that will help YOU. Call 1-800-799-7233 or visit http://www.ndvh.org/ right now. Remember, Vicki, you do not have to stay where he wants you. You do not have to stay at all, but you also don't have to leave right now either. Everything unfolds at its own pace; no one will pressure you to do something you're not ready to do. The end is not even close. You can choose to have an ending in which you lived an empowered, happy life...or you can stay right as you are now, waiting for the end you already feel. Please, Vicki, call the hotline. They will help. You deserve better than the life you have right now; you are worthwhile and strong and capable of removing his voice from your head. I promise. Oh Vicki, I feel for you! Right now, you’re crushed, but you don’t have to stay that way. Please, reach out to someone who knows what to do and what to say that will help YOU. Call 1-800-799-7233 or visit http://www.ndvh.org/ right now.

Remember, Vicki, you do not have to stay where he wants you. You do not have to stay at all, but you also don’t have to leave right now either. Everything unfolds at its own pace; no one will pressure you to do something you’re not ready to do.

The end is not even close. You can choose to have an ending in which you lived an empowered, happy life…or you can stay right as you are now, waiting for the end you already feel.

Please, Vicki, call the hotline. They will help. You deserve better than the life you have right now; you are worthwhile and strong and capable of removing his voice from your head. I promise.

]]> By: Vicki in SC http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/2009/06/02/or-not/comment-page-1/#comment-147 Vicki in SC Tue, 02 Jun 2009 23:43:30 +0000 http://verbalabusejournals.com/verbal-abuse-marriage/?p=375#comment-147 You are describing my life. My husband has won. He has taken away everything I've ever cared about. I'm done. I'm just waiting for the end--whatever that may be. You are describing my life. My husband has won. He has taken away everything I’ve ever cared about. I’m done. I’m just waiting for the end–whatever that may be.

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