The verbal abuse examples in this list aren’t pretty, and there are others I could write (see also: Things Abusers Say And Do). But I need to be true to me and my experience, so I am sorting through things… finally. I appreciate you letting me share. So here I go and I am with hopes that maybe it will help at least one person.
Verbal Abuse Examples From Susan’s Home
These are only some of the examples of verbal abuse and emotional abuse I’ve heard:
Verbal Abuse Examples of Name-Calling
Idiot, Crazy Bitch, Whore, Stupid, Psycho
He made crude names for a woman’s body parts that he knew offended me – Pink Triangle, Couter and others.
“Go sit in the corner and put a hat on it.” (a dunce cap)
Verbal Abuse Examples Showing Disregard and Disrespect
“I don’t give a shit about your feelings”
“Go suck a cock.”
“It is none of your fucking business.”
Told me the church that I liked as well as some of my career interests were “fluffy.”
When I gave him a Christmas gift he said, “Shit” and sighed when he grabbed the box to open it.
“You only have $5.00 in your bank account! At least I have a job!” (When I lost my career due to a medical situation).
“Why don’t you fucking leave or get the fuck out of my house.”
Verbal Abuse Examples Include Sexual Devaluation
“You have a nice ass but your friends and the girls in porn have better ones.”
He knows the meaning and value that I tie with sex. He has sex with me and 6 hours later tells me that he wants to break up. He breaks his promise of wanting to give our relationship a chance and tells me that he lied about wanting to make it work. He showed no regard for my emotional well being or respect for my body and spirit.
Lied to me 30 minutes after we had sex saying that he did not have porn on his computer. Then I saw something on his computer 1-2 minutes after that and he then lies to me again and says, “I don’t know how it got there” when he was the only user. Then he lied about the content of what he watched. He lied 3 times in less than 5 minutes to me…30 minutes after I shared the most intimate bond with him.
Several times he would turn his back to me while laying in bed to show he was withdrawing affection to me or if he was wanting to break up or just angry he would have a stone face and not move his lips if I tried to kiss him. This was terrible!
Several times when he knows he hurt me emotionally or several times threatened to break up over the phone or as he would call it “Let’s throw in the towel,” but at his convenience acted like the conversation didn’t happen. His emotional abuse of withdrawing affection and communication was just another tactic to make me feel devalued, unimportant and feel ignored.
“You were just a good fuck.”
Verbal Abuse Examples of Threatening Behavior and Words
“Why don’t you leave, have your geriatric dog leave too and I hope he falls dead.”
When in an argument, he yanked me out of the car and left me in front of this strangers house and did NOT return back to get me and left me with no resources as my cell phone, purse and other was still in his car.
One time I hurt my foot when we were in a big argument. When I told him I thought I broke it, sitting on the kitchen floor crying, his response was, “Quit your whining and crying and leave.”
Anyhow, I guess those are enough for you to see the verbal and emotional abuse right?
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