Periodically my husband insists on taking over the money and bill paying. This never lasts long. He says my records-keeping is confusing (probably so I can hide all that money he thinks we have).
November 24, 2008
The transfer went relatively smoothly, considering that we tend to fight about money.
I reread a letter from my mom where she equates money with power in a relationship. Regardless of that thought, I am glad to be done with the money.
Now I can get the money I need from what Will tells me we have, while at the same time knowing if he’s telling the truth because I also have access to accounts (just as he had when I paid the bills).
Know what? I’ve got people reading what I’m typing, so I’ll finish later.
Read My Abusive Marriage…and what i’m doing in it…you’ll think I married your husband.