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Domestic Abuse Stories


  • Sterling’s Story of Leaving Abuse

    Sterling’s Story of Leaving Abuse

    What happened that made you decide to leave? I felt like something wasn’t right. After 6 years, I felt really scared and manipulated. He took control of my life by constantly calling, texting and threatening to hurt me. How did you feel about your abuser and/or your relationship in the days before you left? I…

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  • Vanessa’s Story of Leaving Abuse

    Vanessa’s Story of Leaving Abuse

    What happened that made you decide to leave? My mental and physical health was going downhill fast. After 29 years of hell, I didn’t have much emotional or mental energy left. I wasn’t eating much and was sleeping lousy. I was a mental wreck. He was no longer working steadily on our farm or anywhere…

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  • Layla’s Story of Leaving Abuse

    What happened that made you decide to leave?Many things. I had just had our first child. We were going to take pictures with family. He disappeared the night before, didn’t call or text, and showed up the next morning still drunk and missed the pictures. He then claimed he was sick, so I stayed with…

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  • Jamie’s Story – Leaving Abuse

    What happened that made you decide to leave? After 4 years of going through this, I was scared to leave. I felt like I had to stay because if I left then he said he would hurt me and my family. I finally had enough after his behavior was torturous. He was always insulting, possessive,…

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  • ‘My Abusive Marriage . . . and what i’m doing in it’ by Kellie Jo Holly

    ‘My Abusive Marriage . . . and what i’m doing in it’ by Kellie Jo Holly

    Are you being abused? Gain clarity, realize you are not crazy, and find out the common threads of abuse through a gripping tell-all account of an 18-year, abusive marriage. You’ve poured through her blog. You might have even received help from one of her mentors; but hear exactly how Kellie Jo Holly has arrived at…

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  • Little Angelou’s Story – Leaving Abuse

    Little Angelou’s Story – Leaving Abuse

    How I Left the Abusive Relationship What happened that made you decide to leave? I was constantly in fear. I thought I would explode with anxiety. How did you feel about your abuser and/or your relationship in the days before you left? It was so intense, fortunately we did not live in the same house.…

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  • Boring’s Story – Leaving Abuse

    Boring’s Story – Leaving Abuse

    What happened that made you decide to leave? His behaviour escalated. I felt I had to leave because I couldn’t believe a person would treat another human the way he did if they didn’t hate them. I suggested we separate and he went mad, crying, saying I couldn’t leave because he would be nothing without…

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  • Sam’s Story of Abuse: Fear, Loneliness and Sadness

    Sam’s Story of Abuse: Fear, Loneliness and Sadness

    How Sam Realized She Was Being Abused He showed jealousy, needed to control everything, came up with crazy accusations, threatened suicide, and isolated himself and me from family and friends. For some time I thought maybe I was going crazy, since he was careful to show a good face in public, even sending me roses at work…

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  • Motivational Music Playlist: Goodbye to You

    When I started my playlist, Goodbye to You, I was ONLY angry, and these songs expressed my rage when I couldn’t. Now I find they leave me feeling FIERCELY empowered and KNOWING that I will prevail!

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  • Lisa A’s Story of Abuse

    Lisa A’s Story of Abuse

    Lisa’s story of abuse has gone on for 24 years. She thinks it’s her fault but it’s not. Abuse is never the victim’s fault. Read her story now.

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