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Rules for Our Abusive Relationships

We abuse victims have rules we must follow to keep our abusers happy. Unfortunately, those rules can change at any time. And then change back again. Hmph.

RandomlyK (as she is known around here) posted a list of rules she must live by if she wants to keep the peace in her home. All of us have idiotic rules to follow when living in abuse because our abusers have idiotic thoughts. There is no pleasing some people. Perhaps we should start to please ourselves 100% of the time since it is impossible to please them ever. May as well be who we are since we’re going to be punished randomly for doing anything at all. This life sucks.

Read RandomlyK’s blog at Randomly Kassiopeia. I also posted 10 Rules to Live By awhile back.

What rules are you expected to follow?

We abuse victims have rules we must follow to keep our abusers happy. Unfortunately, those rules can change at any time. And then change back again. Hmph.